"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Giovanni SouthSide

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How do you men deal with these girls in their 20s and 30s who just keep exposing themselves/lives on social media especially instagram.
Updating their stories every hour of the day,provocative selfies, posting their every move, following other men vice versa.
This sh!t is on the brink of being some modern day legal online prostitution and do you really want the mother of your first child coming from that kind of pool?

Do you take these kind of girls serious as ltr types and do you think that they will cap their usage, better yet delete their accounts once you draw your line on the sand. Or is the social media crack a hard drug they can't get sober from regardless if you lay the law down on them?

I would really like your input because to be brutally honest I get turned the f off by a girl who is constantly on social media and I treat them accordingly as in strictly for fb material. Which to be real, I feel like I am thinning the herd when it comes to female options around here.

In the past, I had 2 girls who owned old smartphones with cracked screens and they only had facebook for family purposes only. No instagram. Those relationships were the calmest I have ever had. Then again this was in Mexico.

I would appreciate your thoughts on this disgusting phenomenon that is trying to put a crutch on our relationships with women
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jor-El

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Why do you need to deal with it at all ? Let them crack on,ul never change the world
 

Giovanni SouthSide

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Fair enough. Just wanted to scope out the different approaches taken.
I wouldn't waste my time either trying to reform these hves.
Treat these types accordingly seems to be the rule of law around here.
 

LTG71

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You can’t compete with this dopamine supply. Before woman complained about being objectified and only being seen as sex objects. Now they do it themselves and sell it as female “empowerment.”

Imagine you‘re a starving attention hoe and you can get it 24/7 from your phone. Going to be hard but try to weed out these dopamine drug addicts if possible.

Long gone are the days when women had class and it was a privilege to see them undressed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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