"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calling The Girl

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CORVETTE06

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Is it awkward if I call a girl without a reason? Right now this girl is busy with intersession classes. She is done on Thursday and will be going home for a week. She comes back the end of the month for winter session.

I want to contact her cuz the last time I spoke to her was Saturday when we went out.

I felt like I should call her. Should I call just to talk (and see if she says anything about hanging out) or ask her to hang out before she goes home? She mentioned she needed help setting up something. Maybe I should ask if she needs help with that?

I dont care if I hang out with her now or when she comes back. I just want to keep her interested in me while shes back at home.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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CORVETTE06 said:
Is it awkward if I call a girl without a reason?
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YES!

This is what causes guys so much trouble. They know that they need to do something but they have no idea how to do it. You are absolutely right that you need to contact her in order to keep her interested.
 
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CORVETTE06 said:
She mentioned she needed help setting up something. Maybe I should ask if she needs help with that?
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There you go. You can spend time with her there...and maybe after setting up go out for a bite to eat or movie or a little private time together.
 
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