Calling the girl, phone not on

[nan3109]

when you call the girl and both times it rings less than normal (indicating the phone is turned off) , i left one voice message and called 2 times today over the course of 4 hours.

a little background, i met this girl at the club and called her 3 days later and she didnt answer. i left a voice mail and she called back 5 minutes later and we talked for about 10 minutes. she told me she wanted to hang out sometime later during the week. I called today (4 days later) and left the message and ****.

should i just wait till she calls back after listening to the voice mail or should i call her again tommorow? she seems really into me but with girls you never know if they're playin or not.

 

[Entity]

wait for her to make a move. you've done your part.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

OK, youve called her more than enough times already. Seriously, think about it..anyone with a brain would know that you're trying to get a hold of her, so dont think for one minute that she doesnt think this. The ball is in her court now, so its pretty simple. If she is interested in you, then she will call you back, plain and simple. You dont have to call her to make her call you. Its her turn now so you can quit calling her.

Oh yeah one more thing, dont call her, she'll call you.

 

[nan3109]

ok she called me back the same night at 9pm but i didnt have my phone with me. she didnt leave a voice message.

now, should i call her back or should i wait for her to call a second time when i actually can answer?

 

[Starman]

wait a couple days..relax..she could have left a message but she didnt..why?

 

[dannyboy]

Stop calling

Patience

 

[Quick]

I would have no problem with calling her back since I know she tried to reach me. There are cases where calling again will make you seem like a complete chump, but I don't think this is one of them. Plus I suspect that if you're waiting for her to call again you're going to be worrying about it too much.

She might be thinking that she tried to call you and that the balls in your court. She'll probably call back, but it might be days. As long as I know she's meeting me halfway, I'd have no problem with calling her. I also don't have the patience for stupid phone power struggles.

 

[Starman]

maybe she is the type that doesnt like to leave voicmails..so go ahead..what do u have to lose..phone struggles do suck..but there has to be some boundry of neurtrality/reciprocation..

 

[htemorp]

retard, you haven't called enough. KEEP CALLING! Girls love a persistant man. I once called a girl 20 times, she didn't pick up until the 20th time, but she was really emotion when she did. I took as a good sign and very high interest level. But it's kind of weird, because I tried to call her the next day, the phone number seems to be disconnected.

 

[Survivor]

The problem isn't that she's not calling.

The problem is that you're desperate.

Turn off the computer. Unplug your phone. Go outside. Climb a tree. Fly a kite. Write a song. Do something! Anything except pining about dwelling on this one chick.