calling Saturday for same day date ..?

[KnightRyder]

Today is friday ,


I want to met her sometime this weekend ...


so do you think it would be bad to call on saturday morning try to arrange something

the very same day ....?

I am thinking of just going for a coffee...?

Do you think she would already have plans so I should try sunday... ?

I guess I need some schooling in proper DJ phone etiquette

 

[lYlasTer]

If she's a really social creature then most likely she'll have plans already. If it's Saturday I like to ask around Wednesday. I know it's tough, but patience is controlling your eagerness.

 

[Scoiland]

you shoudl call her tomorrow and set something up for the next day .... setting something up for the same day is no good

 

[KnightRyder]

Good point scoiland..

now here is the million dollar question...


where to go on the date .......?

 

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[Scoiland]

Originally posted by KnightRyder
Good point scoiland..

now here is the million dollar question...


where to go on the date .......?

go out for a drink because you will be in control of the date because if you don't really like her you can have 1 drink and then just say you gotta do something else

where as other dates are determined on a set time limit.... like mini golf, movie, etc and you really don't get to know her very well

take her for a drink ...... this way you can decide how long the date goes and you can dump her off if she is boring or does not meet your expectations

good luck

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

if you have a connection wit her......which means you were in your sexual state and used eye contact when you met her....you can call her during Judgement day and arrange a date if you want to...it does not matter....

Guys, I think we should conclude this whole women getting thing with the fact that women are all sexual beings, and when we get in our sexual mind state, give good eye contact, we connect with them, once we connect....you can be nerdy, goofy, poor, rich, whatever.....thats why you should just be yourself, but apply these techniques to yourself....there is nothing wrong with who you are, just what you do.

And call her whenever if you guys are connected......3 day rule...hahah....that is just for you to be more of a challenge, hell, even being a challenge is only a sprinkle on top of the frosting of the cake, it aint the frosting nor the cake...it is just something extra.

When you have the cake, and the frosting, hell, you have a cake. When you connect with them, add in whatever you like, say whatever you like.....because it is not what you do....it is how you do it.

 

[Scoiland]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
if you have a connection wit her......which means you were in your sexual state and used eye contact when you met her....you can call her during Judgement day and arrange a date if you want to...it does not matter....

Guys, I think we should conclude this whole women getting thing with the fact that women are all sexual beings, and when we get in our sexual mind state, give good eye contact, we connect with them, once we connect....you can be nerdy, goofy, poor, rich, whatever.....thats why you should just be yourself, but apply these techniques to yourself....there is nothing wrong with who you are, just what you do.

And call her whenever if you guys are connected......3 day rule...hahah....that is just for you to be more of a challenge, hell, even being a challenge is only a sprinkle on top of the frosting of the cake, it aint the frosting nor the cake...it is just something extra.

When you have the cake, and the frosting, hell, you have a cake. When you connect with them, add in whatever you like, say whatever you like.....because it is not what you do....it is how you do it.

i like this ... good point man

 

[KnightRyder]

what are the times of the day for dates ....?

 

[nonstop]

I like evening dates it's just my favourite time of day but it depends what you're doing.

also I like to take them to two places, maybe a drink + something else. that way it feels like you've taken her on two dates.

 

[smoke city]

Knight Ryder--this sounds like a first date with this girl. so here's an idea...something that goes smoothly for me:
call her around monday and say something like "I'm totally swamped this week [ only if you actually are] but I'll have some free time around thursday afternoon. I'll probably be out having fun [don't say what] and relaxing, and you can come along if you like"
when she says sure--end the conversation--"cool. I'll talk to you again sometime before then". call her again on thursday, have her come to your door and then take her out for an ice cream and a walk in the park.

 

[KnightRyder]

I dont get it man,

I got a number from this girl ..

I called her up..


and after talking for a few minutes she tell me

" I am chilling in the park with my boyfriend "


WHy the **** did she give me her number in the first place if she has a boyfriend ?


**** I really thought things were going places with this girl too .

 

[KnightRyder]

Originally posted by KnightRyder
Today is friday ,


I want to met her sometime this weekend ...

 

[Bonhomme]

Perhaps she sensed your making it too big a thing

**** I really thought things were going places with this girl too .

This statement is what bothers me, and may hold the key to why things went as they did. The blanks have not been filled in, but my sense of the situation is that you just got her number, but have already made way too big a thing of it in your head. She may have sensed overattachment (which is a red flag for the universal turn-offs of deperation and/or clinginess), been turned off by it, and bailed.

Either that, or some other guy she was dating was "promoted," or her boyfriend was the doghouse, so to speak, but is out of it, and back in her "good graces," at least for now.

A lot of gals have boyfriends who are temporary items for companionship, subject to being tossed away at a moment's notice, and are open to other guys when the boyfriend is not around. But they're not about to let go, unless they're pretty sure they're "trading up." Advantage current "BF."

Hell, I've even been hit on by married women, and just dismissed it out of hand, without considering the possibility that their marriage tanked, and they were in the market again (a big "duh" when I saw them out again with their new BFs, fiancees, etc).

Date more women, and make less of each one until one of them does something to really earn thoughts of "going places." Those kind of thoughts too early on in getting to know someone are poison.