"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Calling on all DJs

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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never tell a girl that's hot that she is hot...
that's teh worst thing you can do ..after all

how many guys do you think do this at the first date and when they meet her and screw it up?\

be a challenge and make her win your approval
 

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no way dude don't express feelings on...bad stuff

Make her express her own feelings towards you before you start with that.:cool:
 

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If you want to compliment a girl, do NOT do it on her beauty. It must be based on something other than her looks. Letting a girl know that you like her just for her looks is like her saying to you "I just like you for your car".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You can compliment on things like her choice of clothing, her voice, her jewelry, her smile, her taste in drinks, hell, even her posture, but don't compliment her body or say she is hot, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. until she is sleeping with you. At this point you can say things like this, but not too often.
 

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be sutle, don't just come out and say it. give her one or two compliments but mix it int the coversation. if you are going to say it straight up, add a C&F at the end. Don't worry she'll pick it up.
 

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
Studying the DJ philosophy and now knowing it by heart, theres still a question a can't find an answer to.
When is the best time, or is it even right, to tell a girl that she's "hot" on the first date?
Is it something that you imply? Or should I be blunt about it?
thanx!
why the **** do you need to tell a girl she's hot?? :crackup: :crackup:
 
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