"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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styleman

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Girl used to call a lot, now is calling less. I'll obbviously dropped, but how do I reignight it? She is still warm if I call her, but somehow I feel it should be the girl who calls me not vice versa.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop calling otherwise you'd next time you call she may not pick-up. Let her call you.
 
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Women still want to be chased,she called you and did all the chasing,now she's going to check your level of interest to see if you will call. If you want her,you need to take charge of the relationship and date her,go hwere you want,do what you want. BUT a woman is not going to want a man who lets her do all the mens work of setting up dates and pursuit.
 
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It could be interest level drop. Or it could be the fact you guys been together for awhile and you guys dont need to call each other all the time.

Sodbuster made a point and he could be right in this scenario.

Do you still see her as often?
 
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