"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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styleman

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Girl used to call a lot, now is calling less. I'll obbviously dropped, but how do I reignight it? She is still warm if I call her, but somehow I feel it should be the girl who calls me not vice versa.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop calling otherwise you'd next time you call she may not pick-up. Let her call you.
 
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Women still want to be chased,she called you and did all the chasing,now she's going to check your level of interest to see if you will call. If you want her,you need to take charge of the relationship and date her,go hwere you want,do what you want. BUT a woman is not going to want a man who lets her do all the mens work of setting up dates and pursuit.
 
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It could be interest level drop. Or it could be the fact you guys been together for awhile and you guys dont need to call each other all the time.

Sodbuster made a point and he could be right in this scenario.

Do you still see her as often?
 
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