"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Snap87

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Sup my dawwwwwwgs! :cool: got a question.(1) See, i got this girls number on tuesday. I waited to call her until today,(friday). I called her 2 minutes ago, 3:50, she wasnt there. Should i leave her a message to call me back or just try again later in another time? (by the way, its her house phone number). Also, what can i say, if i want to go over at her house to "chill".




THANKS!!:D :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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toddC

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Since its her house phone, I'd say that you should call back at about 5:00. That should give her time to get home. If she doens't answer then, you should leave a message so she knows that you called.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
Since its her house phone, I'd say that you should call back at about 5:00. That should give her time to get home. If she doens't answer then, you should leave a message so she knows that you called.
 

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i have a different pardicament

This girl that I was pretty confident liked/likes me gave me her cell. So I called her once and she came to a bb game, where I was performing for a drumline thing. Anyways, I called a couple days later and she wouldn't answer. I just called now (a week later) and she still won't answer. Keep in mind I called twice the last time and just once today. So I'm not exactly stalking it up... Whats up with this? should I just give up on her?
 
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