"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Calling her office to avoid screening???

cambie

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Recently, this girl broke up with me although we had great dates and were really getting along. i said see you later to her and then we didn't speak for 2 weeks. i've been doing my own stuff and meeting other girls for dates. however, i'd like to play this other one on the side also. i'm kinda unsure why this girl didn't work out and would like to see if we can patch it up and try again.

knowing that she'll screen my calls or texts and not answer...is it wrong to call her office number (which she gave to me) to avoid the screening and get directly to her??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good_ol_boy

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Boy oh boy, are you in for it now!!!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

Jariel

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I'm sure you don't need us to tell you that if a girl is avoiding you there is no chance you can patch things up. Tricking her into answering is just going to make you seem like a creep. I'll say with 99.9% certainty, calling her office will not help matters.

My best advice is not to question why, but to let it go. Even the most successful DJs have gone through many similar rejections/brush offs before meeting the right person. Just put this down to one of those and think no more about it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Me thinks there is a stalker in our midst... :whistle:
 

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dude it's over....have some self respect.....move on....if you do call her she's just going thing your a creep
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guess I'll play devil's advocate. Did you break up with her, or her with you? If she dumped you....you have serious oneitis and SHE IS NO GODDESS. If you dumped her, and feel you want her back, go get her. But if she dumped you, the bytch can kiss my azz.
 

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I once hooked up with one of the girls in Neil Strauss book, The Game.

She still calls me to this day.

On fake numbers.

Trust me, my opinion of her gets lower and lower every time she tries to contact me using some underhanded method.
 
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