"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calling her office to avoid screening???

cambie

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Recently, this girl broke up with me although we had great dates and were really getting along. i said see you later to her and then we didn't speak for 2 weeks. i've been doing my own stuff and meeting other girls for dates. however, i'd like to play this other one on the side also. i'm kinda unsure why this girl didn't work out and would like to see if we can patch it up and try again.

knowing that she'll screen my calls or texts and not answer...is it wrong to call her office number (which she gave to me) to avoid the screening and get directly to her??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good_ol_boy

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Boy oh boy, are you in for it now!!!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

Jariel

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I'm sure you don't need us to tell you that if a girl is avoiding you there is no chance you can patch things up. Tricking her into answering is just going to make you seem like a creep. I'll say with 99.9% certainty, calling her office will not help matters.

My best advice is not to question why, but to let it go. Even the most successful DJs have gone through many similar rejections/brush offs before meeting the right person. Just put this down to one of those and think no more about it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Me thinks there is a stalker in our midst... :whistle:
 

future dj

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dude it's over....have some self respect.....move on....if you do call her she's just going thing your a creep
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guess I'll play devil's advocate. Did you break up with her, or her with you? If she dumped you....you have serious oneitis and SHE IS NO GODDESS. If you dumped her, and feel you want her back, go get her. But if she dumped you, the bytch can kiss my azz.
 

AsianPlayboy

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I once hooked up with one of the girls in Neil Strauss book, The Game.

She still calls me to this day.

On fake numbers.

Trust me, my opinion of her gets lower and lower every time she tries to contact me using some underhanded method.
 
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