Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Calling girl from bar pickup

bman

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I met and got a # from a girl at the bar, dont really know her that good, i plan on calling her tonight and setting up something for tomorrow. whats the best way to do this? i was thinking call her and find out what shes doing this week, if she doesnt say anything tomorrow im going to ask her to go to this one bar place with me.

whats the best backup plan if she says she cant or something? just call back another time or what?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wheelin&dealin

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If she says she can't make it, don't say "well how bout the day after, or the day after that, or whatever..." Pretend you have a life too, even if you don't ;) . You could go with something like... call her on sunday and say "hey, you wanna do something on tues or wednes" If she says no to both then you can do something another time.

Sometimes if she says she's busy on one day, but offers another day. I'll say something like "I'll be in later on around 9-10 on *the day she offered*, because I have hockey practice (or something). Why don't I give you a shout after my practice is over and we can do something?" This give you more power because it makes you look like you have stuff to do, and it doesn't make you look needy.
 

backbreaker

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i remember one time I pikced this... above avg, not hot hot or anythig up about 3 years ago in a piano bar. she was drunk as hell.. talking about how she wanted to come over my house the next day and suck me off and ****... so I get with my friend who was there and who also got a number from her friend, and we had made these plans.. we went and got some beer and everything.. we had both just stepped out the shower, so we call them?


Du Du DOOOOO

the number you have reached is no longer in service.. sorry, you aren't getting any.

we both just looked at each other and start crying laughing.
 
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