"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As PR said, not a good idea. The only way I see this working is if you are just meeting in the early afternoon, very causal, like walking in park or getting coffee, and she is actually available. Just the fact that is sort of last minute, gives her a good excuse to test you, and say she has plans, even if she doesn't. I know it sounds stupid and most here will say, "well if she's testing you, then NEXT", yet, that is how they see the world when it comes to some of these things.

The only time to actually call on a friday or saturday, is if YOU already have plans and therefore there is no chance you will come off needy and wanting to get something from her. Then, and only then you can just invite her to get together mid week or the following weekend. Believe me, they know when you are calling because you got your act together or because you got nothing going on.
 
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