"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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calling friday yah or nah

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As PR said, not a good idea. The only way I see this working is if you are just meeting in the early afternoon, very causal, like walking in park or getting coffee, and she is actually available. Just the fact that is sort of last minute, gives her a good excuse to test you, and say she has plans, even if she doesn't. I know it sounds stupid and most here will say, "well if she's testing you, then NEXT", yet, that is how they see the world when it comes to some of these things.

The only time to actually call on a friday or saturday, is if YOU already have plans and therefore there is no chance you will come off needy and wanting to get something from her. Then, and only then you can just invite her to get together mid week or the following weekend. Believe me, they know when you are calling because you got your act together or because you got nothing going on.
 
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