"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Went out with a girl and got pretty good vibe. We had talked before and after going out and she seemed pretty interested. I've called her before and left messages and she always calls back.

I called yesterday and left a message. Haven't heard back.

Do you guys try again or take it as hint to forget about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have patience, she might have gone out of town, or worked a couple double shifts. Be patience, give her maybe 5 days before you call her again. In the meantime, find some new plates to spin.
 
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I have another plate on the table. Was wondering about this one.
 
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Mazeman11 said:
Went out with a girl and got pretty good vibe. We had talked before and after going out and she seemed pretty interested. I've called her before and left messages and she always calls back.

I called yesterday and left a message. Haven't heard back.

Do you guys try again or take it as hint to forget about it.
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Umm...I'd wait if I were you and maybe contact her in two weeks if you don't here from her to help get a fresh start. Don't contact right now, though, because she will have you pegged as a sure thing.
 
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yeah man, there's no point in reading into these things so don't stress out over it. If you don't think anything is wrong between you two just wait a few days to call again and see what happens.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you should keep trying... she might be trying to seem busy to make you more interested.
 
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