"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mazeman11

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Went out with a girl and got pretty good vibe. We had talked before and after going out and she seemed pretty interested. I've called her before and left messages and she always calls back.

I called yesterday and left a message. Haven't heard back.

Do you guys try again or take it as hint to forget about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have patience, she might have gone out of town, or worked a couple double shifts. Be patience, give her maybe 5 days before you call her again. In the meantime, find some new plates to spin.
 
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Mazeman11

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I have another plate on the table. Was wondering about this one.
 
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Mazeman11 said:
Went out with a girl and got pretty good vibe. We had talked before and after going out and she seemed pretty interested. I've called her before and left messages and she always calls back.

I called yesterday and left a message. Haven't heard back.

Do you guys try again or take it as hint to forget about it.
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Umm...I'd wait if I were you and maybe contact her in two weeks if you don't here from her to help get a fresh start. Don't contact right now, though, because she will have you pegged as a sure thing.
 
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yeah man, there's no point in reading into these things so don't stress out over it. If you don't think anything is wrong between you two just wait a few days to call again and see what happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you should keep trying... she might be trying to seem busy to make you more interested.
 
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