"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Calling all DJs from Delaware/Maryland eastern shore

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The Scoot

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Hey all, I am Scoot. I discovered this site back in 2003, and internalized a lot of the teaching on here and in the Bible. I had some success with girls in college, but went through some tough times in my life, and got out of the game. I moved back and forth and bounced from job to job, and I continued having trouble even approaching women.

Recently, I decided that I needed to put myself out there and talk to women if I ever wanted to get them. I now have a solid job, I am lifting weights, I have a car, and I am getting out there and approaching girls. :rockon: I am looking to see if there are any people in Delaware or Maryland who want to go out and practice sometime at local bars/clubs/malls. I am living in lower Delaware.

Peace

Scoot
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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