"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Calling all DJ's (actually important)

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VoiceofReason

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Okay. Thanks for reading. Here's the backstory: I work at a restaurant and there's a girl there (there's always a girl) who is very unhappy with her bf.

We've gotten close, she's displayed all the signs of attraction that get tossed around this board, but nothing's happened. Probably because I never tried... All I've done is lay down C+F, be a better guy than her (d!ck marine) bf. She was complaining to me today about how he keeps her on a leash and doesn't let her have any fun...you know the type...

But, she told me today that they're going to break...they've been together for a long time, so the break might or might not last...

I've met her bf when she came to see me play one of my shows... When we were introduced, he acted like she did nothing but talk about me (which I know she does...)

But she also told me that she liked one random guy at work (who's filling in shifts while he's home from school...)

She is coming over this weekend for a party and has volunteered to clean our house (me and my roommate's)...

What should I do? I know that I like her and might have a chance, but I go a little AFC everynow and then...

I do like her a lot, and was wondering (based on the info I gave) what you guys think?

Also, was the thing about her liking a random guy who's home from school (and kind of a d!ck) a b i t c h test?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry to rain on your parade, but girls who complain to guys about guys don't **** the one listening.

Best advice? Hook up with another girl at a party.
 
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smoke city

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eccentric is right == generally a woman who has a boyfriend, but interested in getting with you will avoid bringing him up in conversation at all.

HOWEVER == the nature of the complaint here... that he "doesn't let her have any fun" is something different. If you ask me, that's her giving you an opportunity to flirt with her. You should definitely try to hit that...

oh and yes she was testing you. ignore it.
 
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