“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Calling after the first date

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I have come to realize this site has too many rules and has made me paranoid as coming across as needy.

I went out on a first date a couple of weeks ago and it went pretty good. The girl called me the next day and left a voicemail saying she had a nice time. I would have called her back, but my phone was acting funny and I did not get the message until Monday morning.

Here lies the problem: We went out on Saturday and I figured I would not call her, I would just wait to see her in class (tuesday) to remain "mysterious" and non-desperate.

Well, this has back fired on me, since the girl's IL has plummeted and is blowing me off.

MORAL OF THE STORY: Don't read too much of what you read on this site...alot of it is BS. Everygirl is different.

Obviously, not calling her before I saw her in class screwed things up. It was not the date, because she never would of called and said she had a nice time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The rules on this site are not set in stone. You've got to have some instinct to what you need to do in certain situations. If a girl reacts one way or another you have to react accordingly. There are general standards to be followed but you still have to do a great deal of the foot work by yourself.

Think of the site as a coach to get you practiced up for game time. The advice and practices get you ready for the show and when things are happening in real time you'll be able to recognize them and play accordingly to what you've been taught. Players aren't robots, they have to make smart decisions on their own while in the field.
 
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