"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Callin a girl that You don know

MightyMate

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Back in days me and my friends used to do this. We been exchanging phone numbers of dope chicks and arranging dates.
Fo example, You meet a girl, shes beautiful but You dont find her interesting, or she doesnt find You etc. You keep her number and swap it with friends. Okay so lets say You got numbe of a girl that You dont kno and she never heard of You [it can even be like, You stolen it from somewhere, doesnt have to be from friend]. How to arrange a meeting?
Here is a quick guide.
1. You sms her asking 'Hey who is it?'
[mainly if she doesnt answer now, then You have to jump to step 3]
2. You keep chattign with her, saying You got plenty numbers and You are not sure who is who. And that You are sorry. You are asking her questions who she is, even how does she look like- You can ask that because You dont know who is she etc.You can even ask 'Arent You this little bit less thin girl from my uni?'. And then sudenly stop ansering.
3. You call her day after while You are in city centre asking whats up. You are saying You try to arrange a meeting.

From this step You have to work on Your own. Mainly this stuf works, because girls are interested who is it calling them, what does she want. But You have to play a very relaxed peson and very busy. So busy and so popular that You cant remember some phones. You can act like You got 6 Annas on phone, and You are looking very fast for one of them. After You call the girl and know its not her, You are saying 'Catch You later' acting like You were busy and calling her like few hours after to find out who she is. I hope i madfe this clear.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonMEgaHoss

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If it works for you thats fine but I have ethics when I comes to getting girls/numbers. Why PLAY a relaxed and busy person when you can actually be one.

If you want to sink to such low levels to try to meet her just approach her the ole fashion way.. Or have your friends help you meet her like tell you where she'll be or what not. If they dont then you know where your friendship lies. I personally dont think you should be lying as soon as you come in contact with her. If she finds out or knows she doesnt know you and your blowing her phone up you'll come off as a creepy liar which she'll tell other chicks she knows to stay away from you..

If it works for you whatever ....but some people have ethics and enough repect for themselves not to do this. Deception cannot go unrewarded...
 

DonMEgaHoss

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I rather be honorable and have pride and ethics and come and 2nd in your point of view than try to build a relationship through lying threw my teeth.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonMEgaHoss

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I dont care do whatever you want.
 

Microphone Fiend

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i dont see whats wrong with givin a friend a # of a gurl u arent interested in. Gurls try n hook up friends all the time. Decent post
 

DonMEgaHoss

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Fault of my age.. That has no relevance what so ever. It just seems low from my perspective. I have no rule over what you do. Feel free to rock it out. But that crack about age was an horrible cliche. Blame it on something else not what you happen to see next to my name.

Nothing wrong with trying to hook up friends. And saying that women do it to justify giving out stolen numbers... Well women dont hold honor as much as men.. I believe this invovles honor since you using a number which was stolen.... Do what you want I have said all that I will on this. Just stating my beliefs on this.
 

Marlimus

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Calling women you don't know!? Nah. No way. Opposed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C00L

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Originally posted by DonMEgaHoss
Fault of my age.. That has no relevance what so ever. It just seems low from my perspective. I have no rule over what you do. Feel free to rock it out. But that crack about age was an horrible cliche. Blame it on something else not what you happen to see next to my name.

Nothing wrong with trying to hook up friends. And saying that women do it to justify giving out stolen numbers... Well women dont hold honor as much as men.. I believe this invovles honor since you using a number which was stolen.... Do what you want I have said all that I will on this. Just stating my beliefs on this.
shut up you AFC.
 

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Ohhh bad man with the lame a$$ wannabe insult come back with something more solid.. Call me want, while you lady be calling me to see when Im around. Ohh.. Sorry you probably dont have one my mistake. Tossin out acroynms and insulting on internet cause your frustrated and to much of a coward to say something like that in real life... Pshhh petty little man
 

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If you're not interested in a girl, why not INTRODUCE her to your friend, & get your friend to do the same for you? Just tell the girl, "Listen, I know somebody I think you'll want to meet, he's a great guy & I have a hunch you two would really hit it off." That seems less bizarre than what you're doing, although I have to admit I laughed b/c of the sheer audacity of it.
 
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