"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Called when i got home After first date sex in park...

Aus1987

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Went on a first date last night, got drinks, got a bit drunk, she wanted to be a "classy girl" and not come back to my place, i managed to get her to a park near my place. Had sex after some convincing and then we both went our seperate wats home.

Then about 30 minits later i dont know why but i texted her "did you get home alright?" Still no reply. So now im thinking i made a stupid mustake by texting her seeming to keen or clingy or some ****.i dont want to go out with her but would like to **** her again.

So my question is hiw should i play it from here asuming she doesnt answer that text at all? Ignore for a few days then call when i want to **** her again? Or wat?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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I don't know where you live, but in some places, if you get caught having sex in public, they make you register as a sex offender. It's not worth it.
 
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