"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Called this girl tonight, got the date, and she said...

trent81

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At the end of the 20 min. converstation she said "Thanks for calling". I just said, "okay, see you later this week". Is that a good sign? It sounded like to me she was happy that I called? Am I fuvking crazy for thinking this? What you son's of bitces think? Think I got a shot here. Come one, lay it on me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Son of anarchy

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Some people after many jobs interviews heard "thanks for your application,we will let you know".
It can mean many things,but most of them not the ones you want.
 

shaunuk

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I disagree with Son_of_Anarchy. For example, after I've met up with a girl, sometimes the girl has txted me with a message like...."I had fun, thanks for coming to see me!"

Everytime that's happened, the girl has been well into me.

No need to overanalyse too much mate. Go on the date and knock her dead.
 

JJMcLure

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You shouldn't be talking to chicks on the phone for 20 minutes - you are not one of her girlfriends. Call up, make a small amount of fluff talk to re-establish rapport, arrange the date, then end the call. Talk on the date.

If she agreed to go on a date, that's a good sign. The even better sign will be if she doesn't flake. If she shows up, it's down to you to build rapport, kino escalate and go in for a kiss. The outcome of that will give an indication of her interest level.
 
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