"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Called this girl tonight, got the date, and she said...

trent81

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At the end of the 20 min. converstation she said "Thanks for calling". I just said, "okay, see you later this week". Is that a good sign? It sounded like to me she was happy that I called? Am I fuvking crazy for thinking this? What you son's of bitces think? Think I got a shot here. Come one, lay it on me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Son of anarchy

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Some people after many jobs interviews heard "thanks for your application,we will let you know".
It can mean many things,but most of them not the ones you want.
 

shaunuk

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I disagree with Son_of_Anarchy. For example, after I've met up with a girl, sometimes the girl has txted me with a message like...."I had fun, thanks for coming to see me!"

Everytime that's happened, the girl has been well into me.

No need to overanalyse too much mate. Go on the date and knock her dead.
 

JJMcLure

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You shouldn't be talking to chicks on the phone for 20 minutes - you are not one of her girlfriends. Call up, make a small amount of fluff talk to re-establish rapport, arrange the date, then end the call. Talk on the date.

If she agreed to go on a date, that's a good sign. The even better sign will be if she doesn't flake. If she shows up, it's down to you to build rapport, kino escalate and go in for a kiss. The outcome of that will give an indication of her interest level.
 
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