"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Called on my own game???

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ManUnited01

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After asking the girl I'm involved with out on a date, she told me how two of her good male friends confessed their love to her. She then tells me how she doesn't understand men. I thought it unwise to discuss this with her but thought I could use the opportunity to bust her on her male friends' pathetic AFC actions. After some small talk on the issue she texts me "Though (my name) - only the stupid girls fall for that not interested crap. If someone ever did that to me I'd be like "meh his loss" and find someone better.Xoxo"

It appears shes caught me on my not contacting her for a week/not paying her much attention gig. Should I take the hint and start contacting her about twice a week now and try setting up more dates? In all honesty I have been extremely busy but still...I don't want to come off as needy and desperate but I still want to keep the Challenge up.

Your thoughts would be much appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude,

You did well. Stick to your guns. I think she is sh*t testing you, seeing if you'll run to her now that she has basically said that she is prepared to walk away.

I've been in situations like this before, and all I say to things like that is:

"Well you are saying so and so is also interested in you. Not much I can do about that. I guess it is down to you to decide if you like/want them or not."

Or if you know she is lying, you could call her on it:

"Well I dont appreciate the whole 'this other guys loves me' line just to make me jelouse and make me want you more"

Just act normal. Just get back to her and say "I'm not playing games. I'm giving you space to sort out the situation with these two other guys"

You have lots of options. She likes you, otherwise she wouldnt have sent you that message. Just play it cool.
 
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Thanks Fash,

I'll keep up the Challenge and try meet up with her every fortnight whilst maintaining contact with her . Date tomorrow, everything should go to plan. Going for the kiss...
 
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ManUnited01 said:
"Though (my name) - only the stupid girls fall for that not interested crap. If someone ever did that to me I'd be like "meh his loss" and find someone better.Xoxo"
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She cant control her attraction or emotions. Theyll always want the guy theyre not sure about and not the guy who is devotedly all over her from day 1.

damn apostrophe key not working
 
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