Called EX girlfriend her husband called me!

[Thugo]

So I left my old flame who I think about alot a message to call me just to talk. Well I got a few unknown calls on my cell after I left a message but I misse them so I don't know if SHE treid to call me back.

But today her HUSBAND called and asked why I'm calling his wife. Like he thinks she's cheating with me or something (I wish). I haven't seen this girl in 8 years. This guy can suck my d!ck. I told him to **** off or i'll rip his head off like an orange a peel it, and I offered to meet up with him. I'd love to rip his skin off! He didn't respond so I just hung up in the idiot. Why would she marry such an A$$. Now I'm 10 times a mad as before she picked this jerk over me. I should call her again just to tick him off. I still haven't talked to her.

Did I handle it right or should I have been cooler with the hubby.

 

[DJDamage]

You are either a troll or you need to see a psychiatrist because your oneitis is borderline psychotic.

DJD

 

[Thugo]

You are either a troll or you need to see a psychiatrist because your oneitis is borderline psychotic.

DJD

What's the big deal about a phone call?

 

[DJDamage]

You have already been told to leave her alone and move on like others have said but you can't and her husband is rightfully so getting p1ssed with you.

It seems you are growing angrier and more desperate with each post and you need help or its full blown demenia is what you are headed towards.

DJD

 

[Thugo]

You have already been told to leave her alone and move on like others have said but you can't and her husband is rightfully so getting p1ssed with you.

It seems you are growing angrier and more desperate with each post and you need help or its full blown demenia is what you are headed towards.

DJD

BS others TOLD me to call her in my thread yesterday. Maybe they were BS'ing me. Last time I ask for advice around here!

 

[Thugo]

"Originally Posted by MacAvoy
YES

Call her and profess your undying love for her. Its the only way you will know if she will feel the same way or not. Otherwise your going to spend the next 50 years wondering about "the one"."

 

[Thugo]

"So I gave you the only option you'd accept - TO CALL HER. And what did it accomplish? Nothing. She's still married, and you're not fvcking her."

 

[WestCoaster]

I hope her HUSBAND kicks your ass, and I'm serious. You deserve it. NONE of my married friends, relatives, parents, etc., have goons like you calling them, not one. You're a freaking geek who doesn't respect the married lives of others.

Either that or you're making all this stuff up. If you do run into her husband, I hope he rips your head off. You just don't listen, learn, or have respect for others. She's moved on, moron.

 

[Bonhomme]

Thugo and West Coater, you're both overreacting.

If I called a friend who turned out to be married, and the husband called me, I'd tell him to take a chill pill and not get bent out of shape over nothing. If he was angry I might suggest psychiatric help.

That's it. I really hope you're not still obsessed with her, Thugo.

 

[Thugo]

Thugo and West Coater, you're both overreacting.

If I called a friend who turned out to be married, and the husband called me, I'd tell him to take a chill pill and not get bent out of shape over nothing. If he was angry I might suggest psychiatric help.

That's it. I really hope you're not still obsessed with her, Thugo.

TO HELL with you WestCoaster. You're acting like I'm calling her every day and sh!t. Get off your high horse you're no better than me.

Am I obsessed?

I just really miss her, and I can't get over the fact I screwed up the relationship. And I keep hoping she will come back, when I know she won't. I can't kill the hope. Like what if they did get divorced? Hell, they probably will one day. She probably still wouldn't contact me. Well she might.... AARGGHH

After we broke up I spent a year in isolation depressed as hell.. but finally met other girls, dated a few, had a year LTR w/ a single mom (mistake), but she gave head like a porno queen.

I have been in an LTR now for a few years off and on. Had a one night stand. Even banged an escort. Not too proud of that LOL. Banged a girl off match.com, myspace...can't think of any others.

A year or two ago I started thinking mad about this girl again...every day, wanting her back bad. Feeling like I first did when we broke up. This is before I found out she was married. I have that feeling to some degree now and it's terrible. It's cramping my game big time. like hoping she gets divorced and sh!t. And I have called her twice in 7 years.

Oh WestCoaster, I keep my strap on me at all times. He starts something I'll shoot him. Then I get the girl back. Win win.

And yes, she did want to be "friends" when we broke up, to to HELL with that HUBBY I would throw a party if he died tomorrow.

 

[Bonhomme]

Oh WestCoaster, I keep my strap on me at all times. He starts something I'll shoot him. Then I get the girl back. Win win.

If life in prison or the gas chamber is your idea of winning ...

 

[Thugo]

Oh WestCoaster, I keep my strap on me at all times. He starts something I'll shoot him. Then I get the girl back. Win win.

If life in prison or the gas chamber is your idea of winning ...

Not if it's self defense. Westcoaster is talking about this guy coming after me,.... heh i'd love to see him try.

 

[Thugo]

hey thugo.... we did a very interesting post about your situation a few days ago about your personal situation and the newbies who give you ADVISE IN this forum.
I'll just tell you not to follow anybodys's advise if they have not been here for at least 2 years because the ones who have been advising you know less than you know about woMe N Fand relationships.
you followed the wrong advise but it was not your mistake.
you must be at least 24 years old. go to the MATURE FORUM AND THEY WILL HEPL P YOU OUT AND GIVE YOU THE PERFECT ADVISE THAT YOU NEED

Where is this post? And those people who told me to call aren't newbies. I got more pu$$y before I ever came here then after. All you need is common sense and some balls not some stupid f@cking bible. I will never ask for advice here again.

Needless to say I don't think I'll ever be calling her again and will likely never see or hear her voice again, and it feels like sh!t. Will that stop me from thinking about her when I try to sleep tonight? No. Will the next girl I f@ck stop me from thinking about her? Well I've banged 10 and it hasn't. So NO. There is no cure for my oneitis
I might as well have married her when I had the chance since I'm still thinking about her years later.

 

[Thugo]

What are you now psycho boy? F***ing Ted Bundy or what?

As for a few other answers, let me tell you frankly: you guys in the US have serious issues. :nervous: Like "ripping somebody's head off" or shooting that girl's husband is the kind of thing that would not appear on a European forum.

Hell yes he's going to get a verbal a$$whipping for calling my cell phone.

Heh Amsterdam I see.

And you are allowed to smoke weed at Starbucks. Legal prostitution. I'm moving over there. No wonder you're so laid back.
I can't even catch a decent buzz w/out risking going to jail. I'm getting sick of America from our idiot president to our stupid laws. I'm moving the f@ck out to a happier place where the women aren't b!tches and the government doesn't control your life.

 

[Thugo]

Who cares. I'm just having the worse year of my life, that's why i'm so pissed off. so what's it like smoking weed in a cofee shop? And is it true you can just window shop the hookers? And they are hot as hell and all get tested regularly?

How much is a plane ticket? One f-cking way.

 

[Thugo]

Spare me the cliche Thugo, it just shows your abysmal ignorance.

More of the same violence related ****:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100559

I am VIP member on a French site (www.frenchtouchseduction.com) and writing articles for a French seduction coach (www.spikeseduction.com) and on neither of these sites have I ever read anyone wanting to skin or rip the head of another guy. I am somehow grateful there's an ocean between us sometimes.

So we're Americans. We like to bomb arabs and start wars and kill kill kill for fun too. And we elect monkeys to be our president. Remember? Holland might be next! There's terrists over thur and a WMD under the sofa in yer underground labs!

PS I never said I wanted to rip his head off. I wanted to rip his skin off.

 

[stevey_2000]

i havn't posted for a long time but regularly visit, usually just to browse but i want to add my opinion...

to be honest i've always said the ONLY way to an ex's heart is improvement, moving on and doing your own thing,

forget seeing other girls if they dont have an affect to forget your ex, but please try to concentrate on other things i.e gym, hobbies etc...

it's tough getting over an ex as i got dumped by an ex g/f nearly 2 years ago and cut all contact, even though i still had major feelings for her, since then i hit the gym, reduced b/f and improved everything as far as presenting myself...i saw her 5 weeks ago and she invited me out for a few drinks, i declined as i'm now seeing another nice girly i've been with for 7 months but it just goes to show that time+improvement=possible success!!

the only advice i can give you is forget this girl and embarassing yourself and concentrate on improving yourself and only yourself...

pm if you fancy having a chat about it...

good luck

Ste.

 

[Desdinova]

We like to bomb arabs and start wars and kill kill kill for fun too.

Speaking of starting wars, this thread is CLOSED.