"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Called a cretin and a sexist on the train - a badge of honour

Scormus

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Was on a long train ride for business chatting to my seatmate who revealed towards the end that he is studying to be a priest.

Among the things I said in the conversation:

1. The average girls want Channing Tatum, the good looking girls have looks enough for two. Have seen some of the best girls again while the two plainest who I only was using as practice left the date early.

2. I said the worst girl of all who left after one drink, was so bad I was ashamed to be seen in public with her.

3. I talked of spinning plates and of approaching 300-400 women online to yield 20 dates.

4. I said women look at what a guy has to offer: looks, personality, status and decides if you are a "good deal" from that

5. After he reveals he is studying to be a priest, I laugh and say I can't comprehend it and ask if he ever slept with a girl. He hasn't and I say really you want to go your whole life without ever having had sex.


The woman in the seat in front of me has been listening all this while and turns around and says this is the dumbest stuff she has ever heard, that I am a cretin, a sexist and she can't wait for the train ride to end.

I laugh and say "you're welcome!"

I know I am on the right track my brothers when I am pissing off these cows.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you feel the need to vomit out how much of a social loser you are in public?
 

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Ya of course, some mouthy b1tch always has to get her jab in. She sure as fvck wouldn't have turned around if you were a muslim... she would have shut her fckin mouth and faced forward afraid that she would be privately gutted.

Women today have no respect or fear of Western men, it is not healthy. When women think they can just pipe up and do whatever the fvck they like, your society has a huge fvckin problem. I would have told her to mind her own fvckin business and count her lucky stars that she was born in America. Even a Chinese man wouldn't hesitate to smack a mouthy b1tch. It's only ever the Western guys who come here and take it and create these women. You pretty much know that when you see a Western guy here with a Chinese girl, she's gonna be some yappy 'empowered' b1tch. You ever seen a woman in a burka lecturing a man? Fvck no. As much as Americans think the Middle East is fvcked up, their women don't talk back, know their place and don't question their husband/men openly in public.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Why do you feel the need to vomit out how much of a social loser you are in public?
This was an anonymous conversation with what Ed Norton refers to in Fight Club as a "single serving" friend. You have the anonymous chat with no one you know in earshot and never see your seatmate again.

This isn't a true social situation where you have to watch what you say.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Scormus said:
The woman in the seat in front of me has been listening all this while and turns around and says this is the dumbest stuff she has ever heard, that I am a cretin, a sexist and she can't wait for the train ride to end.
Good example of how women feel entitled to try to shame and enforce with an iron hand their PC/feminist belief system anywhere and everywhere they observe any man not toeing the line.
 

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So this woman who confronted you was really a fat cow? In that case, you should have ignored her. Don't even say anything to her at all. Look at her in her eyes, but then look away and say nothing. She would probably have gone postal on you.
 

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She was slim and a 6 I would say so she deserved a response.
 

Jitterbug

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Scormus said:
This was an anonymous conversation with what Ed Norton refers to in Fight Club as a "single serving" friend. You have the anonymous chat with no one you know in earshot and never see your seatmate again.

This isn't a true social situation where you have to watch what you say.
I'm pretty sure Fight Club isn't meant to be a self-help manual on how to have free therapy in public with strangers, but if it floats your boat, knock yourself out.
 

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Women present themselves like men, except they don't truly embrace all the same reprucussions men face. So if the situation was the same but the commenter was a male, he would be open to having his ass chewed out....mind your business, or this is why you're wrong...if you felt it worthy to engage. Treat em like men, if they dish they gotta take it. None of this riding the fence ****.

Or...realize you're at a severe disadvantage engaging with a western woman who can indeed play a man role but then fall back on traditional roles when she's over her head. No win situation for us.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amazing how the "Mature Man" forum almost exclusively contains threads started by guys who are far from that title.

Can we create a new sub forum where all these bitter guys can go talk about how angry they are at women and the world?
 

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TheCWord said:
Amazing how the "Mature Man" forum almost exclusively contains threads started by guys who are far from that title.

Can we create a new sub forum where all these bitter guys can go talk about how angry they are at women and the world?
Haha. I imagine the priest in this conversation awkwardly fiddling with iPhone the whole time. He probably got off the train a whole stop early just to avoid hearing about this random angry dude's sexual struggles.
 

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Dear Scormus,
Well I liked your Post....I am sure you gave the poor noviciate something to think about...as for the Old Faggot who rudely interrupted you,I think you did the right thing...300-400 approaches on the Net,you must have an assembly line?
 

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Yes at one point I was juggling 7 plates. Have moved to a new town for work though so down to just 2 plates at the moment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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