I'm a freshman in college, a couple months past the end of my first LTR. I met a smart, interesting, beautiful girl at a party on Friday night. An old friend introduced me, and it turned out this girl is roommates with a high-school friend of mine. I acted pretty cool, and that combined with props from our mutual friend had this girl digging me. She complimented me a few times, lots of smiling, etc. I invited her to come back to my dorm room with her friend afterwards (the friend lives in my building, so I figured she could conveniently take her leave once we got settled).
Unfortunately, another one of the guys we had been talking with on and off asked this girl to "take a walk" (good one, i should have used that), and even more unfortunately, she agreed to go. I figured, "alright she's gone, move on." But though I saw this ****blocker with the girl a couple minutes later, they had already appeared back in the hall we were in after another 5-10. When my roommate and I left the party 15 min. later, we bumped into my friend, the HB, and the ****blocker out on the sidewalk. My friend was like, "Heyyy we were just talking about you contemplating what to do." So I just ignore the guy standing there and say "you two should contemplate my phone number, we'll be in my room back at the dorm," and then promptly walk away as if I don't really care whether they come or not. (while praying silently haha)
Well they never showed up, the rest of the night was way fun, and I forgot about them until the next morning when I saw my friend by the elevator. She's says, "Hey, (HB) was raving about you last night." And I'm like "really? She's really cute." My friend tells me yeah, she asked for your phone number. Obviously I told her to give it to her.
I saw my friend later in the day again, and said in passing that "i wish I'd gotten that girl's number." So my friend says here let me give it too you, I'm like naa, she's like yeah just have it, even if you don't call her. So I take the number.
Whoo sorry, too much detail probably. Obviously I'm a little too excited about this one. Should I call this girl, or would it seem too weird? Should I wait for her to call me? If so, how long? If my friend tells the HB that I have her number, she'll probably wait for *me* to call. Or should I just forget the same thing and get the ****ing number myself with the next girl?
Another possibility is I could ask my friend whether she thinks this girl will call or not. But I kinda don't want to imply that I'm super interested, even though I am pretty smitten with this girl.
Thanks
Unfortunately, another one of the guys we had been talking with on and off asked this girl to "take a walk" (good one, i should have used that), and even more unfortunately, she agreed to go. I figured, "alright she's gone, move on." But though I saw this ****blocker with the girl a couple minutes later, they had already appeared back in the hall we were in after another 5-10. When my roommate and I left the party 15 min. later, we bumped into my friend, the HB, and the ****blocker out on the sidewalk. My friend was like, "Heyyy we were just talking about you contemplating what to do." So I just ignore the guy standing there and say "you two should contemplate my phone number, we'll be in my room back at the dorm," and then promptly walk away as if I don't really care whether they come or not. (while praying silently haha)
Well they never showed up, the rest of the night was way fun, and I forgot about them until the next morning when I saw my friend by the elevator. She's says, "Hey, (HB) was raving about you last night." And I'm like "really? She's really cute." My friend tells me yeah, she asked for your phone number. Obviously I told her to give it to her.
I saw my friend later in the day again, and said in passing that "i wish I'd gotten that girl's number." So my friend says here let me give it too you, I'm like naa, she's like yeah just have it, even if you don't call her. So I take the number.
Whoo sorry, too much detail probably. Obviously I'm a little too excited about this one. Should I call this girl, or would it seem too weird? Should I wait for her to call me? If so, how long? If my friend tells the HB that I have her number, she'll probably wait for *me* to call. Or should I just forget the same thing and get the ****ing number myself with the next girl?
Another possibility is I could ask my friend whether she thinks this girl will call or not. But I kinda don't want to imply that I'm super interested, even though I am pretty smitten with this girl.
Thanks
