“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Call or text after date?

sosuave213

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The classic "I had a great time" has to be delivered. Intention is not to ask her out for the next date but to let her know you enjoyed it.

Text or call? Especially if she says "text me when you get home!".
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Definitely text. Do not rob her of the opportunity to think about you. If you call, this takes it away and could lead to longer conversation.. or the opposite; unexpected awkwardness.

If you paid for the dating activities, it's her place to let you know that she had a good time. I wouldn't bring it up. Let her be the one that says "thank you." If she doesn't provide this courtesy, I wouldn't write her off just yet, but also don't forget it.

I'd text something like "More traffic on the road than I was expecting. Letting you know that I made it home without getting into trouble."
 

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Definitely text. Do not rob her of the opportunity to think about you. If you call, this takes it away and could lead to longer conversation.. or the opposite; unexpected awkwardness.

If you paid for the dating activities, it's her place to let you know that she had a good time. I wouldn't bring it up. Let her be the one that says "thank you." If she doesn't provide this courtesy, I wouldn't write her off just yet, but also don't forget it.

I'd text something like "More traffic on the road than I was expecting. Letting you know that I made it home without getting into trouble."
She thanked me in person. I wonder how the old timers used to do it. Would they send snail mail? Lol

Good point on texting.
 

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No, it doesn't. It can be said in person if possible. Text messages are for logistics, not feelings or deep conversations.

SW15 bringing the wisdom in both threads.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The classic "I had a great time" has to be delivered. Intention is not to ask her out for the next date but to let her know you enjoyed it.

Text or call? Especially if she says "text me when you get home!".
It doesn't need to be delivered. Ever.

She will contact you by the next morning if she is interested 95% of the time. Wait for it and then respond as usual.

Don't fall for that one. Tell her to text you when she gets home. This falls under an early "how easy is it to get him to do what I tell him" test that they may not even realize they are doing. But they are, at least subconsciously.

Half the time I have a text from her before I even get home that night.
 

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No it's not necessary to tell a girl you had a great time.

If I like her and she has a few drinks in her, then I tell her to text me so I know she made it home safe.

Typically they say, "hey you sexy bad boy, made it home. You are a fuhking rockstar. I can't wait to do dirty things with you. Thanks for the best date ever". ;-). Lolz
 
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