"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Call or Make Her Wait..?

GhengisT

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I was invited to a club by a friend. It was his GF's birthday or something. It's in an unsavory area, where white boys shouldn't go alone. Literally, the only white guy in the club, & dressed to kill. I stood out, but that turned out to be a good thing.

The girl to guy ratio there was the best I had ever seen, and easily one of the best nights I've ever had. I got the eye from a cute girl dancing by herself, so I approached and asked her to teach me how to dance 'salsa'. She was more than willing, I bought her a drink later, got the number.

She must be the low self-esteem type, kept asking me if I was going to call her tomorrow, 'n such, promise to call me tomorrow, etc. At one point she asked me if I planned to ignore like an ugly girl I just hooked up with. She was Colombian & extremely attractive, so I wasn't sure what her deal was..

Of course during out make out sesh, I said of course I'll call you tomorrow. Fast forward, it's 2am, just got home, have to be up at 4am for work. She's called & texted me already.

Should I call her today, make her wait a few days, or ever? I try to be a man of my word..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cablecow15

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Myself , I would call her , but very late in the day , if you gave your word she will prolly be thinking about you all day, then when the end gets near , she will get all emotional because she don't think you will call , then when you do she will be in your power

really when you look at it , do what YOU want , do you wanna meet her today , do you wanna talk or not , if you cant be bothered make her wait , if she is self conscious she will jump at another chance to be with you , especially if shes into you
 

GhengisT

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She said she was heading out of town today, so I don't have to worry about seeing her. I would like to see her again, so I guess i'll make that call.

I thought her insecurities we're strange, probably why it was so easy for me last night..
 
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