"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Call or Make Her Wait..?

GhengisT

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I was invited to a club by a friend. It was his GF's birthday or something. It's in an unsavory area, where white boys shouldn't go alone. Literally, the only white guy in the club, & dressed to kill. I stood out, but that turned out to be a good thing.

The girl to guy ratio there was the best I had ever seen, and easily one of the best nights I've ever had. I got the eye from a cute girl dancing by herself, so I approached and asked her to teach me how to dance 'salsa'. She was more than willing, I bought her a drink later, got the number.

She must be the low self-esteem type, kept asking me if I was going to call her tomorrow, 'n such, promise to call me tomorrow, etc. At one point she asked me if I planned to ignore like an ugly girl I just hooked up with. She was Colombian & extremely attractive, so I wasn't sure what her deal was..

Of course during out make out sesh, I said of course I'll call you tomorrow. Fast forward, it's 2am, just got home, have to be up at 4am for work. She's called & texted me already.

Should I call her today, make her wait a few days, or ever? I try to be a man of my word..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cablecow15

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Myself , I would call her , but very late in the day , if you gave your word she will prolly be thinking about you all day, then when the end gets near , she will get all emotional because she don't think you will call , then when you do she will be in your power

really when you look at it , do what YOU want , do you wanna meet her today , do you wanna talk or not , if you cant be bothered make her wait , if she is self conscious she will jump at another chance to be with you , especially if shes into you
 

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She said she was heading out of town today, so I don't have to worry about seeing her. I would like to see her again, so I guess i'll make that call.

I thought her insecurities we're strange, probably why it was so easy for me last night..
 
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