"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Call me statement

babooya

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Hi,

I had a nice date Sat., kissed multiple times during date and near the end.

Then, as I was seeing the lady out the door she asked me to call her by stating "Call me?". I turned the tables on her and said she can also call me, that it is up to her to do that.

Now when a girl asks you to call her, should you do it or just wait and see if she calls you? This is after the first date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The_411

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Ugh ...

Classic catch-22 story.

She DJ'd you with the call me line.

You attempted to turn the tables but your repartee was strong enough.

I would have said something like, "do I look like Ma' Bell or something? I'll drop you a line if I've got time.

The call me line essentially makes you look whipped if you do call. So judging on what's has allegedly taken place do not call. Ignore her, she's expecting you to call her. Make her intiate contact.
 

ShizamDaMan

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As long as you don't call immediately after she said that you'll be fine.

Call in a few days, things will be OK. Trust me :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PRMoon

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call her. I mean what do you have to loose? She probably had a good time and wants to hear from you and go out again.

I don't really get why this one was up here.
 

Layla

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Just say ok ill try. This makes her think that you have a busy schedule and makes her wonder whether or not your really going to call her.
 
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