Translation: "I never f*cked a ten, but one night I f*cked five twos, and I think that should go down as an accomplishment!"I have 2 groups of chicks. Bangable and not bangable. I dont really care if they get rated 7, 8, 13....
- George Carlin 1982
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Translation: "I never f*cked a ten, but one night I f*cked five twos, and I think that should go down as an accomplishment!"I have 2 groups of chicks. Bangable and not bangable. I dont really care if they get rated 7, 8, 13....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What did we do in the days before cell phones when the girl was out of town? We waited until she got back from visiting her family and we contacted them then.
Was this ok? Yes it was. Will it still be ok? Yes it will.
It is perfectly acceptable for you to leave her alone when she is out of town visiting her family and then you hit her up when she is home. After only one date and her telling you she will be out of town, it will appear as though you can't respect boundaries if you are texting/calling during her time away.
Show her you have other things going on in your life. Show her that you are not waiting and pining for a girl you have had one date with, while she is out of town. Show her you have a life, not appear as though you are hoping she will be your life.
When she said she was going out of town you should have said "cool. Let's get drinks when you return."
Now leave her be on her trip. Hit her up when she returns.
Cool cool. Shouldn't be too much of an issue then. Contact her again and set up a date when she returns.10-4. All I did was send a jokey text on Tuesday. She texted back with a jokey response. I haven't sent anything since.
So wait, you admit she is a model?I can't stand men (you) who post pics of models, claim to date them, puff your chest out and bark your mouth while wagging your tail. No proof that you are dating any of them.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1.) I work my @ss off to have the successful life that I have provided myself after college.So wait, you admit she is a model?
Do you admit if I was really dating her, you could stand me?
Not an argument. There is no proof anyone is dating anyone. There is especially no proof any woman loves any man.
But thanks again for admitting my girls are too hot to be believed.
At least I show photos of myself with hot women (that is the point of SS - helping men score with hot women. I get my dating advice from men who date hot women).
I don't expect men like you who (I imagine) date older, less attractive women with BPD to salute me. Of COURSE you hate me! I took the girl you all wanted! First you said she was a stripper so she was a bad girl (she is a good girl from a great family and my parents loved her), then that I was paying (I haven't paid for sex since 2014 and only a handful of times in my life, only when solicited, and personally feel that every man should because their moms told them vagina was infinitely valuable, it is not), then that she's not my girlfriend (defined by Webster as someone you are romantically and probably sexually involved with for more than 3 months), then that she's not that hot (her photos are off the charts on Photofeeler and regularly rate 99), then that I didn't show photos of myself with her (I did from this month, this month, and our photo rated 98% authentic), and now you say it's all a lie (I can say you are lying about thinking I'm lying). Sorry, I proved myself. You did not.
And what a coincidence! I can't stand men who accuse me of lying about my women, and present no women themselves. Or who say my women aren't that hot, and show no women themselves. Or who ask me to post pictures of myself (when I already did, in 2012 and 2017) and they don't show pictures of themselves (which they never did).
You want people to listen to you but you know they will tend to listen to men who show hot women, so now you attack me personally.
I am glad you actually work, thank you. Not everyone here can say that.