"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Call girl day after prom?

teencraft

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I had an awesome time lat night (I'll write about it soon enough) with my date and she was slamming and we both had aa good time, so my question is to call her tonight to "thank(?)" her or not?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wavejams007

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Wait two days, to build tension and suspense.
 

teencraft

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I figured I would wait til tomorow anyways...so thanks. Guess my instincts were right.
 

Jerky Boi

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My Freshman prom was awesome, I made a pretty good connection with the girl, but I called her a day later, no response, called her again maybe 2 or 3 days later. Still nothing...If she had a real good time, she'll make it pretty easy to get in touch with her and maybe set something else up in the future. But, if you want my advice, wait at least 2-3 days before calling her and thanking her.
 
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