"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Call girl day after prom?

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I had an awesome time lat night (I'll write about it soon enough) with my date and she was slamming and we both had aa good time, so my question is to call her tonight to "thank(?)" her or not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wait two days, to build tension and suspense.
 
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I figured I would wait til tomorow anyways...so thanks. Guess my instincts were right.
 
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My Freshman prom was awesome, I made a pretty good connection with the girl, but I called her a day later, no response, called her again maybe 2 or 3 days later. Still nothing...If she had a real good time, she'll make it pretty easy to get in touch with her and maybe set something else up in the future. But, if you want my advice, wait at least 2-3 days before calling her and thanking her.
 
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