"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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call back?

VaginalDischarge

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Okay, heres the deal.

I went out on date with this awesome girl. It was a fantastic date, everything went great. Constant conversation, eye contact, and she was dropping hints.

She left for a ski trip at the beginning of Winter break. She said she would call me when she got back, which was about 6 days ago.

Should i initiate a phone call, or just move on?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Runna13=)

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Iono, man. She should have called you by now. But if she's that awesome, give her a call. Many possibilities on why she didn't call, however. Better to do it than to regret not doing it later on.
 

PEACEDJ

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Hey, you should decide to call back but please keep in mind that you can't be missing this girl or the whole point of you calling her will seem desperate and she'll def. sense that. Anyway go ahead call her and make it short/fun.
 
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