"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Call Back Times

drmeathead

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in a follow up to a related thread, what is a reasonable time for a woman to call you back?

prior to the widespread use of cellphones i would say a day or so. however with the invention of the cell phone, one being unavailable is something rare indeed. especially with american women who seem to have their cellphones attached to their ear or have them within in arms reach at all times. now perhaps there are legitimate circumstances but a phone call that isnt returned in 6 hours in todays culture is just isnt going to be. the call was screened or the woman is playing hard to get, either way a call unreturned after 6 hours is just a sign of low interest.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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betterthandead

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Whether or not a call is returned, you shouldn't really care for that. Call her again if you feel like it but don't go all nutty wondering why she isn't picking up.
 

drmeathead

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no going nutty i just think that in todays easy to access anyone society if more than 6 hours pass you arent going to get a call back. guys were wondering when should i call what counts as a non call and should i call. i am just saying that if she doesnt call within 6 hours that she isnt that interested...in most cases.
 

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here's what I have noticed with women playing phone games ....

call once don't leave a message.... wait 4 days to 7 days ..call a second time 90% of the time they will answer the second time, or return the call swiftly ...

if they don't answer leave a message and if it's not returned within a day ...... 85% chance she's playing the game known as " not to get " 15% she may have a legit excuse

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