"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Call a wh0re out on her behavior?

Malcontent

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Last night I went out with a friend. I usually start talking to chicks and he scoops them up, which is fine. I'm learning some stuff from him. No hard feelings.

Anyway, he was basically making out with a HB8 chick at the bar, and her considerably less good looking friend was sitting there looking bored. I couldn't bring myself to talk to her, so I walked away to BS with other people.

Later that night we see the HB3 alone and my friend says something like "I can't believe your friend is married" in reference to the hotter chick. (I didn't know she was either--I'm bad about looking for a ring on the finger if a chick is acting interested.) The HB3 says her friend is really cool and so is the husband. I can't help myself and I say, paraphrasing: "Seems to me she is a wh0re who found herself a chump. Why would a married woman let my friend grope her and why would they hang all over each other for half an hour? Women think they can get away with anything. A good wife would've slapped his hand away and set a boundary instead of fueling my friend's interest in her." Her response? "I want to punch you in the face. We are both individuals who make our own decisions and do what we want." I said "Typical feminist BS to justify whatever sh!tty behavior you want" and walked away as my friend tried to salvage the scraps and maybe bag the HB3.

When he and I met up again, he said "I like the way you think" and shook my hand.

Part of me thinks I should just ignore a h0e but if we are to turn the tide maybe we have to point out their slvtty ways. What do you think? Too much energy investment? Or a microcosm that could evolve into something bigger if we all did it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mangotot

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She is having a whale of a time enjoying **** carousel and the beta hubby is just that. A total beta.
 

mikey2012

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lol must been the chick i was banging..hubby took her back...still banging her...if you get married to a hot chick expect them to cheat...thats the sign of the times...
 

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This happened to my mate one night. She was grinding all over him and rubbing her arse in his crotch - and this was her hen's night!!
My mate grabbed her and said: "Fvck I'm glad you're not my wife."
She went off her brain and I had to restrain her while all her friends piled in calling us every name under the sun.
I said something to the effect: "Look, your friend is being a slut. Take her home to her fiancé and fvck off."
Cue more feminist outrage.
My mate and I still laugh hard about that night.
 

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Dear Malcontent,
Until we know what he gets up to,the jury is out on his being a Beta...Many people have open relationships...suits them!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VladPatton

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Haha, nice. Speak your mind when the moment arises. This is America. It's fvcking insane what a woman is capable of justifying while men are expected to comply and nod like donkeys. Fvck being silent and aloof at times...you come across some fvcked up sh!t, you call it out as a violation to your ethics.

Too many fvcked up people get away with sh!t lately because no one wants to get involved due to getting shamed for it. Fvck that.
 

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You wasted your breath.

It's always pointless to "call" a woman out let alone call anyone out.

You gain absolutely nothing from doing that.

I stopped doing that years ago and just enjoy people's company when I'm out as a result people open up a lot more when I'm not looking to call anyone out.

You didn't change anything.
 
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G_Govan

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I'm in agreement with those who said it was a waste to call her out.

I understand wanting to, believe me, I've had to really bite my tongue in certain instances, but ultimately it doesn't do anything except make unnecessary enemies.

It's one thing to call out a young, impressionable kid who may reflect later, but not a full grown ***** you have no relation to and who isn't directly harming you personally.

If I'm disrespected, all bets are off and I WILL speak my mind.

Don't let their sh-tty behavior get to you, it's a negative energy drain.
 

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Çharismo said:
You wasted your breath.

It's always pointless to "call" a woman out let alone call anyone out.

You gain absolutely nothing from doing that.

I stopped doing that years ago and just enjoy people's company when I'm out as a result people open up a lot more when I'm not looking to call anyone out.

You didn't change anything.
^^^

"Speaking up" is useless, and only shows your desire to be seen as "right."

People's behavior is simply an indication of the sum total of their beliefs, experiences, expectations, fears etc.

If you don't like the behavior of the people around you, go find some new people. Don't stand their and whine about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Malcontent

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Well, it seems you fellas are just as divided on the idea as me. I think I'm leaning toward speaking up because it gets my opinion out, possibly shames a b!tch, possibly changes future behavior, and is a minimal effort on my part. I feel like bailing without explanation is ambiguous and more along the lines of flakey b!tch behavior. But I can still see why some would just walk and save their breath.

I did get a bit of pleasure from it which is a net gain as far as I can tell.
 
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