"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Californication, the show on Comedy Central

snowdog

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This show is really f*cking awesome. Awesome characters, smart and witty humor and great story development.

The main character though, is like the school example of a ladies man. Main part of the story: he's got a kid with a woman he's still in love with. She's gonna get married to some other guy but she's still in love with him really. Throughout the show he pursuades her and tries to get her back. In the meanwhile he pretty much f*cks everything that moves. Really cool to watch how this character handles the girls in the show. He's the perfect example of the bad boy-style, and he pulls it off wonderfully.

Really one of the best shows that's on right now. Aside from what I've written above here, it's really ****ing worth it to watch it for the story too. Again, it's an awesome show. I'm going to watch the season's finale tomorrow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I put my vote in with Snowdog -- fantastic show, awesome main character. Good stuff all around.

The main character is a weird mix of major AFC and badass though. Still, for all his AFCness, he doesn't take other people's **** at all, and with the random chicks he hooks up with he's got major game.
 

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I don't know what you are really talking about but it sounds ok.

One of my favorite quotes is from The Jon Dore Television Show.

(Jon's @ a clinic)
Jon: Do you have to be celibate before you come here?
Doctor: No, that is just a myth.
Jon: So in theory, you could be celibate for a year before you come here. Wouldn't you blow the roof off this god damn place?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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