"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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California and gay marriage

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isn't that a myth about teaching kids about marriage(gay marriage) in school? I was never taught marriage in elementary school (i think).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JAS760 said:
isn't that a myth about teaching kids about marriage(gay marriage) in school? I was never taught marriage in elementary school (i think).
After gay marriage became legal in Massachusetts, there was a school in where they were reading a book to kids about two princes that were married.
 

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honestly what the **** does it matter what people do on their own? it doens't have any impact on your life, why care then?

don't want to teach your kids about gay people? 2 people are in love and cant get married cause you dont want to talk to your kid for 10 minutes? its not like the kid's innate mind is going to reject the thought entirely.. any dislike of gays is based on societal influence
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigjohnson said:
Next goal, Prop 69, ban all marriage contracts.
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