"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Caffeine addiction...

GS-83

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Hey Guys,

It appears that I have a caffeine addiction.
think of 3-4 cans of red bull per day...

The problem at this point is that my body needs it to function properly.

I've tried cold turkey, but after 1 day I got a terrible headache which miracuously disappeared after one cup of coffee.

When I'm "high" on caffeine I am more assertive, outgoing, positive mindset etc.

If I don't use caffeine I have problems waking up in the morning and my mind doesn't work as fast/ isn't that clear. And I'm also very introverted then.

Does anyone have experience with this?
are there healthy alternatives to caffeine?

thanks :-D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At this point you can't really stop all at once.

Try this: Write down exactly how many caffeine beverages you drank today and tommorrow and so forth for a week. Then try to cut it down, drink 1/2 a can less, just throw the rest away. And decrease slowly until the addiction is gone. 1/2 a can less this week, then another 1/2 a can less next week.... etc.

DON'T STOP RECORDING. That little piece of paper shows your progress. Keep it, it is a measure of how much progress you are doing.
 

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I used to be addicted to caffeine from drinking wayyy too much soda (i'm embarassed to say how much, but now I rarely touch the stuff). One day I just decided to stop, and I did. I endured the headaches, which lasted shorter than a week, made sure I was getting 8 hours of sleep every night, and drank lots of water.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Caffeine addiction is something Ive been noticing(not in myself) since living in Italy, the Italiens drink coffee the same way I used to smoke cigarettes, between classes or whenever theres time, its alway "lets go have espresso".
 

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A friend of mine had the same problem but also drank and smoke too much, so she went away on this cleansing camp thing (kinda like rehab but not as harsh). Came back looking and feeling great.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I used to drink regular pepsi like it was water, and then I switched to diet. Tried diet for a while, and then switched to caffeine free. I found too that a headache and being extremely tired was the end result, so what I did was I would have at least one or two cans of regular diet pepsi, and during the rest of the day caffeine free diet pepsi (caffeine free diet pepsi has 1 calorie per can, and 0 sugar or carbs).

I wouldn't say that no caffeine is good, because we all know sometimes in the morning you need that jolt. Tylenol has a new product called "ultra relief" (in Canada anyways) and guess what the added pain reliever ingredient is? Caffeine! Caffeine is also a natural pain reliever and helps your body absorb medications.

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/46/1826_50681.htm

There's a source website.
 
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