C0ckblocked by a "friend"

[theunflushables]

I was invited to a party by a "friend" from work and the hottest girl from work was there as well. We got drunk and high and we were all having a good time. Me and this girl end up in the pool in our regular clothes. Well, she ended up in her bra and shorts but thats it. Anyways, being drunk and high I started chatting this girl up. Normally I wouldn't because of work drama and what not, but I'm working my best game ever at this point and she's digging it, so I think why the hell not?

We're heading up to the house to dry off and this guy comes from nowhere and basically tells me to take a hike. Being as I don't want to start **** where I'd easily be outnumbered I reatreat and grab my jacket and my electronics and smokes. And then came back and told them I was taking off.

Now, seeing as I was more working game than anything and she doesnt want to sleep with this guy anyways, is this something to confront him about or just let it go?

 

[decadentdestruction]

props on the gaming the girl...
u should of said good bye to the girl with a hug ...

as far as the guy for **** blocking...Screw him , why even argue in the first place thats how drama starts ...

look at what u accomplished the girl ended up in shorts and a bra !

she was digging you ...

 

[Bloke]

I'd say let it go, but I can understand.

Part of ya would wanna flog him.

But ultimately it doesn't matter, not worth the trouble. Not like you're gonna marry her.

 

[theunflushables]

Yeah I understand that Bloke. My problem is I feel as a friend he broke one of the commandments "Thou shalt not c0ckblock a friend"

Looking back at this soberly though. Yeah it wasn't cool but I'm not going to say anything.

 

[Monster]

That does not sound like a friend

 

[theunflushables]

Hence the quotes around the word friend. He was cool up until that point but the whole incident makes me see him as an AFC who had to c0ckblock someone who was having a good time with someone he will never get.

 

[slaog]

He told you to take a hike and you did? Why? What did he actually say?

 

[AKA FLEX]

I wouldn't have "taken a hike" that easily. I wouldn't worry about this too much, just next time don't let some a-hole c-block you without at least trying to fight your way through it!

 

[Chase12]

Your retarded.. why would u ****ing take a hike just cuz he says so... that doesnt make him look afc.. that makes you look like a weak ass ***** and him as the alpha male as he just comes around and you obey him like his freaking puppy...

 

[synergy1]

at least number close. If you were spinning good game, you can pick it up later. Might have lost the battle, but not the war.

Everyone is right, this guy isn't your friend.

 

[theunflushables]

Couple reasons why I let it go there and "took a hike" (his actual words were "give us some space" or something like that). Because as hot as this chick is, I have no real intenions of bagging her I was just having a good time. I work with her, I work with this guy, and I also work with my ex. I do not need any drama at work. Also the dude is large as hell (and I mean in a fat way) he weighs at least 100lbs more than me, if he get's swinging those ham like fists of his I'm sure I'd be off the ground.

Now if I was trying I wouldn't have walked. Also I see no threat in him, she finds his physique disgusting and she feels a little creeped out that he likes her. Maybe I'm a sadistic bastard and the thought of his suffering gives me a chuckle. Just before I left for the night she was saying something about how she wish she was in her own bed. I told her I was going to mine with my memory foam mattress pad. She got into it. Ohh, that guys face got so red. It was great.

As for this guy not being my friend, yeah, I know. I knew as soon as that happened. I'm not asking for advice on if he's a friend or not, just if I should call him on his sh1t.

 

[Faded Image]

Is it his house you guys were at?

 

[theunflushables]

Well, his friends house. But it may as well be his house for as long as they have been friends.

 

[stuka1939]

I was invited to a party by a "friend" from work and the hottest girl from work was there as well. We got drunk and high and we were all having a good time. Me and this girl end up in the pool in our regular clothes. Well, she ended up in her bra and shorts but thats it. Anyways, being drunk and high I started chatting this girl up. Normally I wouldn't because of work drama and what not, but I'm working my best game ever at this point and she's digging it, so I think why the hell not?

We're heading up to the house to dry off and this guy comes from nowhere and basically tells me to take a hike. Being as I don't want to start **** where I'd easily be outnumbered I reatreat and grab my jacket and my electronics and smokes. And then came back and told them I was taking off.

Now, seeing as I was more working game than anything and she doesnt want to sleep with this guy anyways, is this something to confront him about or just let it go?

What an a-hole. He was obviously envious that you were with the hot girl and not him. Maybe he should get off his fat ass and lose some weight.

Man, I hate haters.

 

[theunflushables]

And basically, thats all it boils down too. He's the type that if he's not winning he whining.

 

[theunflushables]

So, this kid is a fvcking snake. The girl I was talking about asked me yesterday why I left. I told her how this guy was acting like a jerk and thinking I was trying to take advantage of her. Today I see an email from him to another coworker saying I went straight up to this girl and told her he c0ckblocked me. In the meantime this kid has said nothing to me about the issue and of course I can't bring it up becaise then I become accused of being an email snooper. I try my hardest to keep the drama out of my life in general but at work specifcally and yet it follows me.

 

[Jerry Maguire]

Remember the events disclosed here are only the OP's perceptions.
Maybe he was creeping the girl out and the ****block did the girl a favour?

Assuming this is not the case, there are endless options
the one's I'd choose would be
1) Be straight up with the girl, tell her what happened, but in an honest, not ****-stirring way which is obvious you're trying to make him look bad.
2) Have some fun amoging and ****blocking him. It's only fair, as long as you don't take it too seriously.

 

[DJDamage]

So, this kid is a fvcking snake. The girl I was talking about asked me yesterday why I left. I told her how this guy was acting like a jerk and thinking I was trying to take advantage of her. Today I see an email from him to another coworker saying I went straight up to this girl and told her he c0ckblocked me. In the meantime this kid has said nothing to me about the issue and of course I can't bring it up becaise then I become accused of being an email snooper. I try my hardest to keep the drama out of my life in general but at work specifcally and yet it follows me.

I would have taken the high road. This b1tch does not need to know everything especially about the two of you having a fit and getting your panties all tied up because of her (never inflate her ego to a point where she thinks you will drink her p1ss. She got into her bra and panties because she knew what she was doing and that was being the attention wh0re that she was). I would have told her that something else came up and I would ask her for her number so next time the two of you can do this one on one without your AFC c0ckblocking coworker. As for the worker, pretend like it never happen and mind your own business and never hang out with him outside work.

 

[theunflushables]

Remember, I work with her, and I don't dip my pen in company ink. She knows this as we once had a drunk co-worker try to hook us up. So we are not competing for her. I'm just p1ssed that a so called "friend" would get jealous over nothing.

Secondly I told her so she knows to watch out for him. I mean, thats pretty creepy.

 

[Szyzzlin]

There's no such thing as c0ckblocking. If you got game, you got game.. no matter what dork tries to ruin it. Just say to the girl "I'm taking off, you want to come OR what's your number?" and then either take her down or call her another time.