"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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C&F Text messages

Voice

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Does anyone else use text messaging as a c&f tool? For example this one girl was like "I miss Voice" to me and I responded "I would miss me too". Or another example was when one of my hot friends was like "My friend Britt thinks you're cute" I responded "Yea, I am pretty cute". Then she was like "I meant gay" so I said "yea that too". I'm rarely ever serious when I text message girls, always joking around.

Let's see another time was when I was messing with some girl and she called me an ******* (half kiddin), so I was like "so what is it about *******s that you like so much?"(from Senor Fingers) Haha, I thought it was funny and shes still around. I don't know what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Groovy

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Haha, fun thread. :D

I would have responded something like-
Prove it.

I think that's the most awsome reply ever. Only works full effect irl tho. Maybe even: I missed you too........... just a little bit. :D

Second one is tricky to answer.

You could use: Her vision looks great! *****y look* (If you improve this look... Man, you could say anything remotetly funny and it's going to work well).
I think i'd use: You ain't gotta say it, I know I'm sexy.

If a girl calls you gay, i think a funny reply is: Yeah I'm gay! Want to convert me? or something like that. (Maybe that's too bold but you get what i mean haha. I'd totally love to say that one tho.)

Third one is really funny! :p
 

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Voice said:
Does anyone else use text messaging as a c&f tool? For example this one girl was like "I miss Voice" to me and I responded "I would miss me too". Or another example was when one of my hot friends was like "My friend Britt thinks you're cute" I responded "Yea, I am pretty cute". Then she was like "I meant gay" so I said "yea that too". I'm rarely ever serious when I text message girls, always joking around.

Let's see another time was when I was messing with some girl and she called me an ******* (half kiddin), so I was like "so what is it about *******s that you like so much?"(from Senor Fingers) Haha, I thought it was funny and shes still around. I don't know what do you guys think?
Use the search function, there is a GREAT thread about C&F text messages.
 

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if she meant "yeah and gay" i would have implied somethng with you and her together. something like "you're right. or else i would be hitting on you. oh wait i might be already"
 

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her: i meant gay..

you: "Well thats clearly her hintin she wants to try me under the sheets!"


her: She thinks ur cute
you: and i bet you agree with her huh?

her: ur an a55h0le
you: and yet i smell goooooood!!

Or

you: and u cant get enough of me!

her: I miss your voice
You: Lets give you smtn else of me to miss.. ;)
OR
you: Just my voice??
OR
No i think you miss the source of my voice..my lips!
OR
wow!i like having my voice missed, so next time i see you im just gonna whisper in ur ear.. cool?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Voice

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She didn't say she missed my voice (maybe she did I don't know), she just said "I miss (my real name)!!!".

One other line I use a lot is "I know right". It works for just about any text she can send you.
 
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