C&F... & mysterious?

[Gonzalo]

Hello people. So it's common knowledge that we can enhance our game by incorporating mystery and C&F into our personalities. Now for the mysterious types, how do you work your C&F without breaking your natural coolness? I mean, the picture is somehow not right if a mysterious/silent/intelectual type goes into the cafeteria blasting "HEY GUYS HOWWWS IT GOING???!!!!". Same thing with girls. Any comments? G

 

[tiburon]

TO MY FRIEND GONZALO

Dear Friend:

I honestly believe that C + F has nothing to do with being mysterious or affects it in any way. You are misterios about your life but that doesnt mean you are not outgoing for example. You can be a party animal and still know one knows about you , or woman are always intrigued by you. I know party animals tend to talk more than they should sometimes but this is an example. Finally lets not confuse silent type with shyness or opening your mouth at the right times. The silent type is great aslong as he opens his mouth at the right time....IF you are trying to be like thsi i believ the C+ F must come like everything elese at the right time......she can get to know that you dont talk crap, but you have humor, you are confident ,but the rest of your life is a mystery. Therfoere i dont see a problem with being mysterious and C+f ;

Tiburon

 

[Mr. Mystery]

The big problem with getting/giving advise on this site is that different things work for different people based on their personality.

What works for the outgoing funny guy, might not work for the quiet reserved guy.

That said, if your one of the quiet cool types, you can still tease and flirt without being goofy and loud.

Find your niche, stay there and get more and more comfortable and you will learn as you go what you can and can't get away with.

As far as mystery goes, all that is is not talking about yourself all the time like most insecure people do in order to prove to people how cool they are.

Mr. Mystery