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C&F + Kino on a REALLY SHY girl. Yes or no?

j8snx1

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I know some cute, but really shy, girls in my school. When I normally use the DJ methods on the girls that aren't TOO shy, they know I am joking around and take it lightly.

Shy girls on the other hand, might think otherwise. They might take it personally and I might scar their image of me.

Would you suggest using C&F/Kino/etc. lightly on shy girls?
What would be some good ways to get em to open up if the DJ methods seem to offend them?
 

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Damian

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One of the best ways to open up a shy girl is to use kino escalation. Verbally, just try to keep the C+F light, until she's comfortable with you.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
One of the best ways to open up a shy girl is to use kino escalation. Verbally, just try to keep the C+F light, until she's comfortable with you.

-Damian
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Shy person+ Strangers= Shy person who is uncomfortable

Shy person+ Someone who talks to them= Comfortable, willing to open up

Basically it comes down to comfort and trust. The more you talk to her the more comfortable shell feel, causing her to open up. Crack some jokes, show her youre fun to be around and shell probably be pretty greatful you talked to her. Read her palm, do a little cold read, and youll be doing her quite the favor. You can get some kino and some C+F at the same time, but keep it light.
 
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