"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C&F isn't rocket science!

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In the last few days, I noticed the increasing number of field reports where the original author misused ****y & Funny (C&F). Guys, David Deangelo's C&F isn't rocket science! How you can possibly mess it up goes beyond me. If you can't figure out what is C&F, use the following guidelines:

1) The end effect of C&F is that you are charming the woman. Yes, the keyword is charm.

2) C&F comes naturally from a confident man that uses humor.

If you have a hard time visualizing what if C&F, just rent "Top Gun." Pay attention to how Tom Cruise (Maverick) is attempting to court Kelly McGillis (the blonde chick). At all times when Tom Cruise is courting Kelly, he is charming her. Tom Cruise's humor simply comes off as C&F because he is confident.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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