C&F backfired on ex schoolmate??

[Mr.Speed]

Hey folks,

I am currently reading "Weapons of mass seduction" by Senor fingers. He describes,that you should "accuse" woman in trying to seduce you etc. this procedure somehow backfired.

I met one of my ex schoolmates on myspace recently.First I did not realize,that it was her,I thougt of her just being a woman. When I mailed her,she replied that she recognized my face.

But I better give you few excerpts.

Me: you know me? you know what,since your pictures are on private, I better do a friend request on you,in order to stalk you better

Her: Ok, you beginn to stalk me

Me: hey now I realize who you are,you must be..

Her: yeah thats me. We laughed a lot in the past,i can remember that. blah blah

Me: I could barely recognize you. Good thing those awful dreadlocks are gone, you got wonderful hair. but enough of kissing up to your a$$ . I Can remember how you accused me of beeing into britney spears,like every other boy in that time.

her: really,I cant remember that.

me: *starting to tell the story like fairy tale*

her: hey, you got a nice writing style, you have always been a good talker in the past. i gotta go go sleep now, we stay in touch. how about drinking a beer one day?

me: ahh, you are starting to seduce me,but iam not that easy. I am a human beeing with feelings etc.. hey your zodiac sign is cancer to,you got a big plus here with me now.

her: no, you got it all wrong. I didnt want to seduce you blah blah..

me: i was just joking,this was just irony,i thought you would read it

her: yeah i did


so how where iam doing? I tried a lot of funny things etc. and she seemed to like it. but she dumped me already? I dont know. she is really good looking,and I am wondering, if I score with her or not. Do you think her "backfire action" is something to count on? how should I interact with her now?

I need some hints pals

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

me: ahh, you are starting to seduce me,but iam not that easy. I am a human beeing with feelings etc.. hey your zodiac sign is cancer to,you got a big plus here with me now.


You shouldnt go this deep . You could've said only , OK , BUT NO TOUCHING or something like that .

her: no, you got it all wrong. I didnt want to seduce you blah blah..

This is when she threw a sh1t test on you . And you lost it . Look down where you lost it .

me: i was just joking,this was just irony,i thought you would read it

You're making excuses for your actions . You were buying into her frame . Now she have the upper hand.




Dont worry , i think you can still go for a beer with her . But , learn from ur mistakes .

 

[1cane]

You had her but once you said im just joking and explained it you lost her...

I've noticed in the past few weeks that when you say a comment and they reply either sarcasticly or they just dont get it, you should keep the joke going cause as soon as you explain it... you lose.

You should be able to get it back though. Keep working on it and just remember theres plenty of fish in the sea so your not desperate for this one.

 

[Mr.Speed]

thanx so far,for your help.next time,i will not make excuses. i will keep "driving" the road.

so,you guys think it is not lost at the moment?

any further tips?

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

thanx so far,for your help.next time,i will not make excuses. i will keep "driving" the road.

so,you guys think it is not lost at the moment?

any further tips?

Just be the MAN now . Be the Prize . Act confidently , dont be scared to escalate , thats it i think . If you have questions , throw them here

 

[Touchout]

I've learned to loathe c&f, I feel that it's really hard to calibrate with different new girls. While it is useful with girls you already know your humor, many new girls either don't understand what's going on or just don't respond the way you want them to... which makes you try to seek their validation.

I agree with DTP, next time keep the c&f act to a minimum.

 

[just so suave]

I don't think you've screwed this up at all.

her: no, you got it all wrong. I didnt want to seduce you blah blah..

Especially if she actually used the wink? Or did you put that in? Just try and set something up with her, and remember theres no hurry, so be patient, it could take a few weeks.