"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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C&F approach doesn't work as well?

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Hi

From my experience, the ****y and funny approach doesn't seem to work that well at first. Most of the time (though it does work at times) it gets the girl intimidated and eventually not knowing what to say. I find that by first getting her comfortable (getting to know her) it easier to get her toopen up.

Dunno, is this the same for the rest of you guys?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, its usually not a good idea to be too extroverted upon approach. C+F works best once the babe is comfortable with you.
 
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You use that when she's fishing for compliments, you use that to show you're confident with who you are, and don't make her feel like she's the prize to be won. No doubt you're not gonig to make her feel intimitated right off the bat outta nowhere, use it right! It works!
 
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C&F is to have FUN with the girl, not to build rapport. Thats where eye contact and smiling and kino comes in.

C&F is to lighten up the atmosphere and is to be used only once she is already comfortable enough to allow herself to experience emotions in your presence.

c&f is what makes her eyes flare up, gives her a big girlish grin, makes her want to leave and at the same time stay because she is having too much fun.

some of it works by the "incongruency" method.

(do a search for "incongruency")
 
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