c*ckblocked by roses!!

[jungleman pete]

girl at gym on valentines day

Hey everyone.

If you remember there was this girl I was interested in from my gym. She made it only semi apparant that she had a boyfriend back around Christmas time and since then left my gym to work at another one about 20 mins away from my place.

She always showed a lot of interest and we had some really good conversations.

So I went in on Saturday morning (Valentines Day) and she was there.

I started fluff talk with her, and it was going great. I then managed to swing the conversation around to Valentines Day. I went something like "It sucks that you have to work not only on a Saturday morning but on Valentines day too!"
"I know!" She said enthusiastically.

I was doing well. "But I got these flowers delivered this morning" She gestures to this huge ass vase with a fricken bout ten roses in it. "Wow, arent you lucky!" I managed out say without breaking stride.

She then caught me a bit unawares and asked me if I was doing anything special that night, and I said "nothing really huge at the moment, how about you?" and strangely she said she wasnt doing much.

Now, please correct me if i'm wrong, but shes got some AFC sending her roses. I assumed it was her boyfriend. Shes already shown me the roses, making it pretty apparant shes seeing someone.

Then she says that shes not doing much on Valentines day night. I would have expected her to say shes having dinner at a restaurant with the dude who sent the flowers. I dunno.

Did I blow an opportunity to say "Hey, come out with me then, it'll be great!"?

Those roses really put me off!

I said I had to go upstairs and do my workout, and left her. I went back down after woods and she was fawning over the roses with another chick that worked there.

Yep.

Anyone see something I may have missed? I've got a few girls that i'm working on at the moment, but this one was really quite fun to talk to. I can go back anytime and see her again, but is a NEXT in order? Should I have asked her out that night or would it have been futile anyway?

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thanks guys

 

[jungleman pete]

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Can anyone help?

 

[rgeere]

You already stated in your post exactly what you should have done and didn't do, so why do you need any of our help?

Just ask her out already...

 

[MrBond007]

You got to learn that there are some things you cant really change and you have to beleive in "the force". "The force" is actually what someone might consider the "leap of faith". Just beleive in your abillities because if you dont noone will and even if you do noone really will.

You could have asked her out for that night sure or asked her if the person who sent her the flowers got a date out of it.If she says no then you could say something like you want to go out with her tonight but she shoudnt expect to receive that much flowers. Something like that. Make it sound funny in your own way.

 

[jungleman pete]

Thanks guys,

I just needed to hear it from someone else.
I'll drop in this weekend and ask her out. No excuses.

I'll let you know how it goes