"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was at the grocery store earlier picking up some milk and as I waltzed by the shampoo isle I noticed this super hot MILF.

I have somewhat long/shaggy hair so I made it seem as if I were in the market for some hair products. I waited a good 30 seconds then opened her:

Me: excuse me, can you help me find something for my hair?
Her: haha ah sure
Me: yeah this humidity really does a number on it
Her: haha i know it does
Her: hmm i don't know... i usually just get what my stylist suggests
Me: oh great... out of everyone i could have asked it HAD to be you.. *sly smirk
Her: haha gee thanks
Me: yeah i need something good because if i cut it i'd be hideous!
Her: haha i don't thin...

Husband and her little kid pop up out of no where and she startled with a tinge of frustration that our interaction had to end walks over to them and leaves.

Later as I cashed out and drove off, I saw them walking out and she kept looking around and I wonder if she was looking for me, seemed like a possibility because she was really eyeing her surroundings.

Anyway just wanted to share because I found it funny how she seemed embarrassed/agitated when he showed up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dear Tryst,
Seems like a flawless approach,next time you may be luckier and have no significant other around...go back to the same Aisle and lurk to see any potential targets...One gets better the more times you do it!after a few times you will have the next step planned,"You seem an interesting Lady,lets chat,I often have coffee next door,coming?"
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Tryst,
Seems like a flawless approach,next time you may be luckier and have no significant other around...go back to the same Aisle and lurk to see any potential targets...One gets better the more times you do it!after a few times you will have the next step planned,"You seem an interesting Lady,lets chat,I often have coffee next door,coming?"
Nice. Yeah a little part of me didn't know when to take it to that next step
 

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You mean there isn't enough single women out there that you have to pick up married ones? Come on dude, have some class.
 

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Howiestern said:
You mean there isn't enough single women out there that you have to pick up married ones? Come on dude, have some class.
I didn't know she was married but thanks for your input :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Howiestern said:
You mean there isn't enough single women out there that you have to pick up married ones? Come on dude, have some class.
Nothing wrong with what he did, didn't know she was married. I applaud him for running game on a random woman in the grocery store.

And to tell the truth, it probably made her day. Maybe it will force the husband to amp up his game.
 

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speed dawg said:
Nothing wrong with what he did, didn't know she was married. I applaud him for running game on a random woman in the grocery store.

And to tell the truth, it probably made her day. Maybe it will force the husband to amp up his game.
This but, don't fvck around with a chick once you find out she is married. Nothing good ever comes of it. Wedding bands are a dead giveaway.
 

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And, I would have to say that if my hot milf wife hooked up with some guy, I would not pound him. I'd just change the locks on the doors. Nice knowing you honey.
 

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Yeah I'm not one to go after a taken woman but I didn't know in this case. You guys think she knew I was interested? My approach was pretty indirect. But I do hope like speed dawg said that it at least made her day. She didn't look too happy standing next to her husband when I saw them as I left.
 

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Had an entire weekend of "mz wrong" 2 big girls rubbing their boobs against me, a "party girl"[with 3 kids] I wasn't interested in, and a married woman ["sans ring" who hugged me 3 or 4 times and played with my chest]...only thing that saved me there was I knew she WAS married 3 months ago[and her husband was in the bar,saw her go back to talk to him].

It happens, sometimes you just have to be your own best friend and pull yourself out of situations that will get you in trouble. It helps if you are sober enough to know there IS trouble ahead.

I never mess with a marriage... in my home town, we had a "suicide" a few years ago[what the sheriff ruled it],who was messing with a married woman
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pretty sure this doesn't belong here. Perhaps the DJ Discussion forum next time.
 

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This is the problem with cold approach, especially daygame. You never know what you're going to get - single mother of four, a woman married to a jealous cage fighter, BPD, STD laden, who knows? Not that I can think of a better alternative.

I can see it being more effective for the younger guys. But once your target age group reaches beyond college age girls, the chances that they are unattached and childless decrease dramatically, especially if she's attractive at all. Which I imagine she would be, because why else would you approach?
 
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My problem with this thread is your Freudian slip in the title. As if you don't think a husband has any right to kick the living sh1t out of you for messing with his woman.
 

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5string said:
Wedding bands are a dead giveaway.
To be fair, guys my age don't look at a hot woman's fingers. We get easily distracted by other stuff. :p
 

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"She didn't look too happy standing next to her husband when I saw them as I left."

If he had to put his foot down and correct her for any reason, she won't look happy in that moment, but she'll get over it. I think a lot of guys automatically assume there's something wrong with the relationship if a woman is momentarily upset. In some cases this could be true but it could also be possible that a man corrects his woman or won't take her s**t in the moment and she pouts. Then after she pouts, they go home and he f**ks her brains out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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