"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bypass the "Good Girl" tactics.

Purefilth

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The other day, during heavy makeout session, Kino escalation a little of the old two steps forward retreat one.

She murmers in my ear. "I feel like a slvt."

Good Girl defence.

She is saying there. "I don't want you to think I'm a slvt."

Purely from the speed I escalated tripped her ASD (anti slvt defence) into "Good Girl" mode.

I reply "oh, why's that?"

"I don't know you."

"Of course you do. I'm [==]"

(we had only just met though)

She giggles.
Back to makeout.
I de-escalate a bit, then push harder a moment later. And go for the puusssaayyyy.
:D

She is mine. The point here is soften the slvtty feelings that have stirred when she realises how quickly she's been seduced. A little joke, don't even take the ASD seriously, and just continue like nothings wrong. If you don't make a deal out of the defence and you don't treat her like a slvt. She WILL BE A SLVT FOR YOU.



Any other examples of passing ASD below please. Let's try to make a decent manuscript for "Good Girl Defences."



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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this deserves a bump seems to have been over looked some good info in here
 

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Agree on the importance of the topic, we dont speak enough about how to avoid ASD and last minute resistance.

I found in my experience that a non judging attitude really helps as much as never logically engage any of their objection.

I'm still looking for the perfect plan to take girls home from the club, I can do pretty well once they are in my place but the moving may be a problem.

I try with the better music offer or the lets have a couple of drinks but the percentage of success doesnt satisfy me yet.
 

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HAHA... love this. Will keep in mind when i'm in a similar situation.
 

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Another question they raise- I was on my first date with a chick
(making out) and she is HB 6.5 and she says if I put out with you on first date, you will never take me to your mom
I back off and say , my mom likes girls who can keep me happy. She pulled me back in and we were at it again.

Now maybe the answer wasn't right but I had enough attraction present that it worked lol

Another thing to keep in mind is that, anything like this comes BACK OFF RIGHT AWAY, like you don't care if this continues on or not. Also it gives an illusion that you are interested in what she is saying not her lips lol

Better suggestions are Welcome for future references.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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