"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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By the time you figure out what to do, she's pregnant

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I've seen a lot of men come here and ask 'what do I do in this situation' with a woman they like and want to sleep with.

What they don't realize is the woman will likely forget about you the moment you leave her side. By the time you come in here, ask the question, get feedback, process it, make a decision and follow up with her, she's already moved on having sex with someone else and pregnant. Women have no connection, feeling, emotion, towards men, especially in the Western world where female hypergamy is celebrated and rewarded.

So just do what you want to do, what you are focused on, what your goal in life is, and she comes along for the ride. That does not mean MGTOW or the hell with women or they are all the devil. It means if you have a question on a specific situation with a woman you really like, you are shifting your focus from your goal to her, which is actually her main goal.

Come on men!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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While they will get pregnant, it isn't true that women don't care about men. Tonight I ran into two girls who I met 6 months ago tonight (same day I met my girlfriend). It's amazing how often people repeat patterns on the 3 and 6 month anniversaries. Anyhow, we picked up exactly where we left off. They remembered every detail about me as I did them.

If you want women to remember you, be memorable. Dress sharp, have some way to get through to them, and repeat the process the next time.

A woman's opinion of you will stay in roughly that range unless you do something unusual. She may from time to time think she found better and stray, but they usually return to the equilibrium that was already established over your first 2 months together.
 
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